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There will be great resistance to change because the whole of the economy of Western Society depends on distasteful practices in the media and stock exchange. Change must be gradual, government sponsored, supported by the great institutions. So there will caution by those people in entrenched positions and caution is needed by those of us who feel that change is necessary.
People have had 50 years of a particular way of thinking. That
has resulted in a Society that is far from what most people would like
it to be.
Our proposals should yield success even if they take 50 years to
work through the generations.
Our experience in a drop-in group for young people, called Rood Crew,
who do not go to church has been suprisingly good.
Young people from age 12 up come to a church centre (it has 6 rooms)
on a Tuesday evening from 7 to 10. The group is run by members of
the church and is expressly to show care and consideration for these young
people, many of whom are on drugs, who smoke, drink and are having sex.
The police are surprised that we are more successful than other
clubs for the same young people. When asked why, one of our lady
leaders said 'because we love them'. We find that by being trustworthy
and caring for the young people they trust us with their troubles
and hence at last they have found adults who are not against them - as
are their parents, teachers and the police.
We are a Christian group and are backed up by prayer as well as
love! At first the church leaders were against what we were doing
(some probably still are!) but most have seen the success we have and the
support of the police and accept that this is a vital experiment for the
future well-being of teenagers, and therefore of Society. People
in Youthwork are now beginning to realise that the important thing with
young people is not programmes and plans but relationships. In Rood
Crew we try to build relationships of trust and confidence. We find
the young will be eager to develop such relationships provided they find
they can really trust us.
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If clubs like this were available for all teenagers what difference
would that make to the next generation of adults?
How do you change the ham fisted handling of teenagers to the considerate
and loving handling of them? Their behaviour is only what they have
learned from adults and each other. But to many people teenagers
are not very loveable unless you have a gift of loving and caring for them.
Most of what the teenagers learn must come from the media.
They see violence, marriage break up, dis-honesty, hate, murder, burglary,
drugs, smoking, sex on television so is it surprising that they copy what
they see? Media moguls say it doesn't make any difference to teenage
behaviour but they would wouldn't they? The media will prove statistically
that television will have no effect on the behaviour of teenagers.
We do not need biased statistics to confirm to us that TV has an enormous
effect on teenagers. That is just common sense. One TV executive,
on being asked if the advertising on TV affects what teenagers buy
said something like 'affect them! We own them'.
There is no effective censorship of the media and they go mad if
you suggest that there should be! But if they will not censor themselves
and stop the programs that cause heartbreaking breaking up of families,
then they will have to be controlled. Great caution is needed if
we are to achieve that! Imagine the resistance by comedians if they
could no longer use sexual and obscene jokes on TV. They would have
to think up really funny jokes. Or if the radio plays could
not use sex and divorce in their stories. They would also have to
think up some real plots. But at least it would stop the media pulling
down Society's behaviour pattern. Yes, it does need caution and there
will be resistance!
What sort of people do we need to lead the country into the future?
Churchill & Initiative
Perhaps we could echo Churchill in agreeing that in Nelson's time there
were not enough men with initiative, zeal and a burning eagerness to attack......!
Ref 6-1.
This is
a tug!